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In just about any social situation, one of the first questions that is typically asked is “So, what do you do?” It’s a question that often sheds much light on the character of the person who is answering.
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If I’m awake, I have a song in my head. Sometimes it stays in there and other times it comes out. There have been a few times when I’m singing and I don't even know it. Just ask my wife! Singing and music in general have always been a part of my life because of my father. His love for singing and music had an influence on me even at a young age. His passion for worship music became my passion as I got older and I’m extremely thankful for that.
But, maybe you would say singing isn’t your forte. Maybe you would even say singing during a worship service makes you feel uncomfortable. For the men out there, maybe you think congregational singing isn’t very masculine. Or you may simply be indifferent towards singing on Sunday morning. Whatever your idea of worship through singing might be, know this: responding to God through singing for who He is and what He has done is not reserved only for the talented; it’s granted to the redeemed. If you have been set free from the bondage of sin through the gospel, then singing in worship to God should abound!
“I can’t sing!” I’ve heard this countless times. If you’ve caught yourself saying or thinking this, you probably mean, compared to your favorite singer or the woman who sings harmony behind you at church, your voice doesn’t quite match up. If you can physically speak, you can sing. Not only can you sing, but God created you to sing! Of course, some sing better than others. However, if we perceive singing aloud on Sunday morning as reserved only for the “gifted,” then we misunderstand the purpose of worship through singing. God is more interested in the posture of your heart than He is with your ability to match a certain pitch.
Now, we say often at Restoration Church that there are many ways that we respond to God in worship. We respond to God in worship through the reading of His Word. We worship God by aligning ourselves with Him in prayer. We can even worship God by keeping children in the nursery. There’s a host of ways we can worship on Sunday morning.We don’t want to limit worship to only singing. However, I want to point you to 3 reasons why I believe we should be compelled to sing as the redeemed body of Christ.
1. We should sing because God Himself sings.
The more I think about this, the more it gives me chills! The Master of the universe, the only holy God, Yahweh sings! How incredible is that? I often wonder what His singing must sound like. It must be the most powerful and beautiful sound we will ever hear. Not only does He sing, but He sings over those he redeems! Zephaniah 3:17 says, “The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty One who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; He will quiet you by His love; He will exult over you with loud singing.” All throughout the Old Testament, Israel consistently disobeyed the Lord. Because they rejected the Lord, judgment was headed for them by way of enemy nations (Zephaniah 1-2). How can the holy God exult over a disobedient and obstinate people with singing? God made a covenant with them—one that would not be broken. God, in His infinite mercy, chose to rescue the Israelites from their enemies. Not only did He turn away His wrath, but He was in the midst of them easing their every fear. This is a foreshadow of what God would do and did do for us through Jesus on the cross. Because we rejected God in our sin, we were the objects of His wrath. Judgement was coming for us. But God mercifully and graciously provided salvation through Jesus so that we could be restored! There was once wrath stored towards us. Now, God sings melodies of grace over us. He sees us. He’s with us. And He sings over us. Gifted singer or not, this should motivate you to sing with every once of your being!
2. We should sing because our soul needs it.
We are a forgetful people. As we walk through life, there are hardships, temptations, and trials that shift our attentions and affections away from this gospel. God knew this to be true of Israel as well. In Deuteronomy 31, God commanded Moses to write a song to teach the people that would remind them of His goodness and faithfulness. “They will turn to other gods and serve them and despise me and break my covenant. And when many evils and troubles have come upon them, this song shall confront them as a witness (for it will live unforgotten in the mouths of their offspring).” Singing the truth of God’s Word helps us remember the character of God and the goodness of the gospel when confronted with sin. Not only does our soul need to sing when confronted with sin, but also when we’re in the depths of suffering. Jesus promised us that we will face trouble (John 16:33). Therefore, where there was once indescribable joy, sorrow seeps in. Where there was calming peace, anxiety will abound. These are the times when singing the truth of God’s Word feels impossible or even pointless. However, when our vocal cords are constricted by suffocating circumstances, we must sing. King David went through plenty of hardship. In Psalm 42, David is driven to such distress that he writes, “My tears have been my food day and night.” It is in this same passage that he writes and sings, “Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me? Hope in God for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.” He continues by saying, “My soul is cast down within me, therefore I remember you from the land of Jordan and of Hermon and from Mount Mizar.” When our souls are panting for satisfaction, our hearts reeling with pain, or we are simply indifferent, we must remember the goodness and faithfulness of God. Reading the Word and communing with God in prayer are disciplines that remind us of the character of God. I believe singing is a discipline that does the same. Gospel truth coupled with a melody leaves a lasting imprint on our hearts. May we not only think of singing as what we do to proclaim how we feel about God. May we also sing loudly about who God is and what he has done for us in Christ. It is the latter that guides us when our feelings are fickle.
3. We should sing because our neighbor needs it.
If I’m honest, there are some Sundays when it is hard to sing. There have been some Sundays when I come without reminding myself who I am in Christ. I allow my feelings to lead me instead of the truth of the gospel. There are some Sundays when I have come out of mere obligation instead of a deep joy and holy anticipation to encounter the greatness of God. I know I’m not alone. We all struggle at times to aim our worship towards Jesus because our worship is entangled in countless other gods. It is in these times when we need to hear each other sing. One of my favorite times during our Sunday morning gathering is being able to back away from the mic, stop playing my guitar and hear the church sing! Ephesians 5:19 says we should “be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms, and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart.” We sing not only to praise God but to encourage each other. Our singing should point each other to Christ. We need to hear each other sing.
- Stephen Krumalis
Here are videos 4 & 5 for this focus on intimacy....
1521: A single German scholar, facing the assembled might of both church and state, is ordered to recant his positions against the many corruptions and false teachings of the Roman Catholic Church. Before the entire assembly, he replies that he cannot recant, as his conscience is held fast by God’s Word. He will be excommunicated, a hunted man, kidnapped by his own supporters, living in disguise for a year as a knight to avoid being caught and killed by those would see him and this growing movement crushed.
1536: Captured after years of smuggling his English Holy Bible translation into his native land, so that his countrymen could finally read God’s Word for themselves, just before being strangled to death and burnt, a man prays that the Lord will open the eyes of the King of England to God’s truth.
1555: A defiant leader of the English Reformation is about to be burnt at as part of “Bloody” Queen Mary’s purges. Disdaining the flames, he tells his fellow martyr, “We shall this day light such a candle, by God's grace, in England, as I trust shall never be put out.”
1660: A tinker, faced with the choice of either stopping his preaching of the gospel, or going to prison, tells a court he will not comply with their demands. He will spend over 12 years imprisoned, but in all that time, he never stops preaching or writing concerning God's Word and the Christian life, including a book that will become the best-selling book of all time next to the Bible itself.
1730: A young French woman, just recently married, is imprisoned for refusing to renounce her Protestant faith. She is only 19 years old, and will spend the next 38 years in prison. She will be released, finding that both her father and husband have died during her long sentence. Yet in all those years, she holds firm to her biblical faith, even writing and encouraging many others who find themselves similarly oppressed.
We have described the lives of five unique individuals above: Martin Luther, William Tyndale, Hugh Latimer, John Bunyan, and Marie Durand. Each of them were part of different circumstances and times, and each suffered in a unique way, but all of them did it for much the same reason: the idea that men and women would be free to know the truths of God’s Word, would be able to learn the Scriptures for themselves, and would be able to hear biblical teaching and preaching. Each of these individuals held tightly to this great, recovered, Scriptural truth of the Reformation: The just shall live by grace alone, through faith alone, in Jesus Christ alone, as related by Scripture alone. And this wonderful truth is fully worth living a life consciously dedicated in every season and adversity to the glory of God alone.
The truth that was fought and paid for so dearly by the saints and martyrs through the ages is eternal, as it is the truth as defined by our Lord and Creator. The ability to study and share God’s Word is never something that is to be taken for granted—a fact that one look at the persecuted church around the world today will readily tell us. Our generation of the church can look to these faithful witnesses to remind us the preciousness of being able to have God’s Word, and the urgency that the message of salvation be shared with a dying world.
The 500th anniversary of the Protestant Reformation is a good time to examine ourselves in relation to how we treat God’s Word and the gospel therein. Do our lives reflect a love for it? Is it compartmentalized to 90 minutes on Sunday, or is it something much more than that? Do we plead we “have no time for it”? Do we acknowledge that if it is worth dying for, it is beyond certainty worth living for? Let us study and share the Word, living it out daily, embracing our Savior’s call to make disciples of all nations (Matthew 28:18-20), and not squander the incredible freedom that God has graced us with by the willing sacrifice of so many valiant saints.
So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ. -Romans 10:17
Video 3 of 5
- Emotional Intimacy in our marriage relationships -
Video 2 of 5
- Physical Intimacy in the marriage relationship -
Here is the first of five videos that deal specifically with three key areas of intimacy in our marriages.
Here is a short video from some founding members of Restoration Church. Great practical marriage advice from Gary and Angie. They've been married for 39 years.
You'll find the link to the week one assessment below. Have a great weekend!
HERE is the link to the marriage assessment survey. We want you to take some time alone and fill out and answer these questions. Record your answers somewhere so that you can review them with your spouse later this week.
Assignment for the week:
1. Fill out the assessment on your own.
2. Sit down with your spouse to share answers. You're not looking to solve any problems right now, simply trying to get your bearings.
3. Identify the areas of concern. Any area where there was a discrepancy in your answers or things that you rated lower than a "3" should get some special attention.
*The next week's assignment will give you some direction on next steps towards dealing with these concern areas and putting them behind you.