HERE is the link to the marriage assessment survey. We want you to take some time alone and fill out and answer these questions. Record your answers somewhere so that you can review them with your spouse later this week.
Assignment for the week:
1. Fill out the assessment on your own.
2. Sit down with your spouse to share answers. You're not looking to solve any problems right now, simply trying to get your bearings.
3. Identify the areas of concern. Any area where there was a discrepancy in your answers or things that you rated lower than a "3" should get some special attention.
*The next week's assignment will give you some direction on next steps towards dealing with these concern areas and putting them behind you.